The Arabic word mujadila means 'the woman who argues,' 'the woman who disputes,' 'the woman who pleads.' Every English translation grasps at a different facet of the same act: a woman who will not be silent. The surah named after her opens not with her argument but with God's response to it: "God has heard the statement of she who argued with you concerning her husband, as she complained to God. God heard your conversation. God is Hearing and Seeing" 58:1. Note the architecture. God has heard -- past tense, completed action. She complained to God -- present continuous, an ongoing act. God heard your conversation -- a third repetition of hearing, this time specifying that the exchange between the woman and the Prophet was not merely overheard but witnessed. And then the divine signature: Hearing and Seeing. Two attributes. Four declarations of divine awareness in a single verse. No complaint from the oppressed is lost.
The practice she was protesting -- zihar -- was one of the most psychologically cruel customs in pre-Islamic Arabia. A husband who wished to punish his wife but did not want to formally divorce her (which would require returning her dowry and freeing her to remarry) could simply declare: 'You are to me as my mother's back.' This single sentence created a legal and sexual paralysis. The wife was not divorced -- she could not leave, could not remarry, could not seek another household. But she was also not a wife -- the husband would not touch her, would not fulfil his marital obligations, would treat her as though she did not exist as a woman. She became a ghost in her own home. Zihar was not divorce. It was erasure.
The Quran's response is immediate, categorical, and devastating in its simplicity: "Those of you who estrange their wives by equating them with their mothers--they are not their mothers. Their mothers are none else but those who gave birth to them. What they say is evil, and a blatant lie. But God is Pardoning and Forgiving" 58:2. The ruling operates on multiple levels simultaneously. First, it is a statement of biological fact: your wife is not your mother. The comparison is anatomically, legally, and morally absurd. Second, it is a moral judgment: what these men say is munkar (evil, objectionable) and zur (a lie, a falsehood). The Quran does not merely prohibit zihar. It names it as what it is -- a lie. Third, and remarkably, it offers mercy even in condemnation: God is Pardoning and Forgiving. The door of repentance is not closed. The custom is abolished, but the men who practised it are not beyond redemption.
What follows is one of the most precisely graduated systems of expiation in the entire Quran. The husband who has committed zihar and wishes to return to his wife must first free a slave: "Those who estrange their wives by equating them with their mothers, then go back on what they said, must set free a slave before they may touch one another. To this you are exhorted, and God is well aware of what you do" 58:3. If he cannot afford a slave, he must fast for two consecutive months. If he cannot fast, he must feed sixty needy people: "But whoever cannot find the means must fast for two consecutive months before they may touch one another. And if he is unable, then the feeding of sixty needy people. This, in order that you affirm your faith in God and His Messenger. These are the ordinances of God. The unbelievers will have a painful punishment" 58:4. The graduated structure -- from manumission to fasting to charity -- is not arbitrary. Each tier serves a different psychological and social function. Freeing a slave is the most dramatic act: it transforms a moment of domestic cruelty into an act of liberation for another human being. Fasting is internal discipline: sixty consecutive days of self-denial to counterbalance the self-indulgence of zihar. Feeding the poor is communal repair: the damage done to one relationship must be compensated by service to the wider society. The private sin must produce public good.
The scholars have long noted that the woman behind this revelation -- traditionally identified as Khawlah bint Tha'labah -- did something extraordinary. She did not accept the Prophet's initial silence as a final answer. She persisted. She argued. She complained to God Himself. And God vindicated her. Aisha, the Prophet's wife, is reported to have said: 'Blessed is she whose hearing encompasses all things. I was in the same room as the Messenger of God, and I could not hear all of her words -- but God heard her from above the seven heavens.' The woman who could barely be heard across a room was heard across the entire cosmos.